i cant see my nick in im looking for private dialogue list, plz

There's a board called Features / Bug Reports / Questions - Board. You will probably get a quicker answer there :)

you have to click the i'm looking for private dialogue "button" to see it in the list ....ok jk

It takes time depending on your internet speed to appear in the list, sometimes a page refresh would work too.

but i did that/ i hadn't this prob before–thank you

ok you're welcome.