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One Angry Dwarf · 28 years old · registered since 2007 · last online - yesterday

Women here - are we contradicting ourselves?

Spinchat.com · · 4 comments

I seldom PM people I have not chatted with before, however, today
International's main board was covering such mind-stuttering subjects
as having the munchies, and greeting on a repetitious cycle... and felt I might
as well try my luck, and, in the fear of "horny men", decided to pick a female.

Personally speaking, being a female and chatting sometimes feels one of the most
stupid things a dull-minded character can do to herself. So little civil people around,
and decent chats far and few between.

However, what I find odd is people who whine about this particular fact - men here,
and how few of them are willing on focusing on the useless drivel that (at least for me)
makes chatting worthwhile, being the very-same people who are prejudiced
and rude towards female chatters as well!

And, funnily enough, having difficulties in finding a decent conversation from a female
does make me feel sorry for the one or two decent males (my educated guess) on Spinchat,
trying to find a decent conversation must be impossible for them (both)!

I am hoping in the future, we can be less prejudiced and more positive towards each other,
as long as we are in this chat-community, might as well make it a nice environment for us all!

This is what happened when I tried to have a civil conversation with someone.
Granted, my PM-skills may be rusty, but do believe there are worse starts to a conversation out there!

DullMindedGirl: Hello... just wanted to note that I love your nick, but one thing I found rather sad was all those "rules and regulations" on your profile... :) Sorry to bother you.
BeltaneMoon: if u have a problem take it somone who is interested in dull minds ^^
DullMindedGirl: Hmm...
BeltaneMoon: NOTE: Person does not accept dialogues.

Dearest BeltaneMoon - your rules and regulations do seem to me a complete hoax,
and frankly, being big-headed seems slightly unjustified in this particular case.

Firstly I figured of discussing how such rules are completely useless:
just makes "possible friends" vanish,
and the ones these rules are aimed for, will never read through them!

However, it seems our Moon-gazer needs these rules to justify her lack of politeness...
and one thing left me wonder - would there have been a conversation, was I male?

November 2nd, 2011 12:45
4 comments

go try your luck as an unregistred male. You'd be surprised what happens


Not really - unregistered users can only PM other unregs, unless they are PM'd first by a registered person. In my experience, females PM once in a blue moon as it is, and the fact unregistered males do not get much luck on Spinchat does not surprise me one bit!


There are always rude and impolite people. Perhaps they are losers themselves. Taking out their frustration here. But explorers often meet with worse results.


Thinks of those rules as a sign saying "You don't want to talk to me".

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